Today was Monday, but is felt like a Saturday, no doubt thanks to the flurry of pre-holiday activities which culminated with the "big one." I most certainly threw off my bio-rhythms when I did a Saturday and Sunday night marathon DVD watching. Sean gave me Season One of "Damages" and thanks to the dearth of fresh programming during Christmas and New Year's week, I not only got hooked after watching episode one but spent some late nights feeding the addiction, although it was worth it.
Monday. Back to the grind. I went out to mail a surprise TY for Texas Ghostrider, and since I was out on this crisp and chilly day, I decided to go to my favorite taqueria. Normally when I walk into the place during the lunch hours, I'm treated to hearing the chattering of Spanish by most of their customers. I'm not sure why, but family owned taquerias are my "comfort place." I've always felt safe, and almost protected hearing the sound of people talking and feeling the energy of the owners and customers, interacting, with the sounds of Spanish peppering the landscape the senses, while taking in the delectable smells of grilled beef or chicken and seasonings. I don't get the same sense when I'm in a very large restaurant that has multiple locations, but this is almost always the experience in smaller places.
When I walked in, I was surprised to hear so much English. Looking around, the demographic was different, no doubt owing to many people taking this week off. They always have a great mix of customers, from working folks, families, and neighborhood people, which also lends a nice feeling to the place.
Since I needed to return and make several phone calls, I ended up taking my tacos home. There was a new guy working the grill, and holy frijoles, these tacos were as large as they look (no trick mirrors were used in the taking of these pictures):
On the left is Mr. Carne Asada, and to the right is Mr. Al Pastor.
Taqueria Asadero
2213 W. Montrose
773 583-5563
Monday, December 28, 2009
Tacos: the ultimate comfort food (next to tamales and meatloaf)
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Labels: Lincoln Avenue, lincoln square, north center, tacos, Taqueria Asadero
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Another Goodie Bag Delivery

Tonight was another Goodie Bag delivery. This should keep Mr. Novio good with snacks until the end of his shift in the morning.
Perishables
Homemade chicken salad with bacon and chipotle
A Fuji Apple
Chocolate Raspberry cake with ganache
Fresh veggies with onion/garlic dip
Monster C fruit juice
Tidbits
Garlic pretzel sticks
Fannie May Mint Meltaways
Fannie May Dark Chocolate Pixies
Fannie May Milk Chocolate Raisin Clusters
Fannie May Chocolate English Toffee
Cafe Selmarie Butter Cookies
XOXO el dulce! You can work it off later...
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Labels: goodie bag
The Perfect Christmas Gift

So here we are, it's the day after Christmas, and I began reflecting on the gifts I received and those that I gave. My marketing background requires me to look at the consumer behavior aspects of it. Often people receive gifts and think, "What was this person thinking?" or "This must have been meant for someone else." Great gifting is the art of knowing your recipient and what they would have wanted for themselves. Where great gifting can go awry is when we project our own beliefs and issues into what we think they should want, versus would want.
Of course sometimes we can luck out. One year in high school, an old friend of mine, Ron, came over and handed me a wrapped box and said, "I hope you like it.... you're gonna kill me!" The funny thing about it is that I really liked the gift, although it drove my parents nuts because of the constant colored strobes. But we all know that the tastes of 16 year olds are not the same as adults.
I was listening to a piece on the radio about a family whose gifts consist of incredibly frugal items, which include rewrapped hotel bathroom soaps. Because everyone in the family enjoys these types of surprises, they are ultimately the perfect gift within the family and they all have fun with it.
My mother and I shared very, very similar tastes in things, so much that one Christmas day we actually gave each other the same thing. We literally gave each other something we would have bought for ourselves.
I could go on at length about the lovely and perfect choices that many friends and family members have given me, but the point of this post is not about "what I got." It's about how to make the choices that add joy to the gifts we give, versus turning gift giving into a chore or a display of issues.
This year one of my gifts was a gift of my time and energy. It wasn't the most glam thing to do, but it is what the recipient really wanted, and truly appreciated. Great gifting is also from the heart, not necessarily from the wallet. My mom used to love it when I'd do Polarity Therapy (alternative healing) on her. I'd give her a handmade coupon good for any time, any day and I'd be on call.
One year my ex was really bent out of shape because his sister's husband bought him a few pairs of cotton socks (athletic wear) for Christmas when he bought his brother-in-law a very expensive sweater. The truth of this matter was that while the expensive sweater was perfect for my ex, it was not something that was at all practical for the recipient and it also came with my ex's attitude that they guy dressed like a schlub. As for the socks, they were more of what the brother-in-law would have wanted for himself. So both gift givers gave what they would have wanted to receive, not what the recipients could use and might want.
One of my other friends just does an annual dinner treat, since his attempts at buying me clothes have failed miserably. Part of that is due to having no idea how to size women's clothing despite having both a mom and a sister. His efforts have been gallant but often hilariously off, especially since the added challenge of how styles can make size requirements go up or down still remains a mystery. Hey, that's challenging for us girls! Oddly, sometimes I miss the funny choices.Of course sometimes gifting can be a timing issue. This year I shopped early for Mr. Novio and found two items that I thought would be perfect for him, that he could use both when he works out and when he travels out of the country. By October these were both purchased, and by mid November I had these nicely wrapped and set aside, only for him to come over one day in December and watch him go head over heels over an item I bought for the bodywork table. Maybe next year I won't plan so far in advance...
In the end, great gifting means that the person giving the gift became an extension of the recipient, and in ultimately found something that the recipient themselves would have bought for themselves. Great gifting is seamless, because we take our ego out of how we chose the gift. And sometimes the greatest gift of all is knowing that you are loved by others.
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Wednesday, December 23, 2009
A Pre-Christmas day of comfort food
Ever have one of those days when you need comfort food? Tuesday morning I started my day by going to the grocery store. Since I have little choice but to take public transportation, grocery shopping for certain foods to accommodate dietary issues means a trip to Whole Foods. There's nothing like carrying two big shopping bags of groceries and missing the bus while the snow is pelting down hard on your face. With no place to put my paper shopping bags but on a wet bench, I decided to go to the train station, where I then missed a train. Whoever wanted a White Christmas most certainly doesn't stand around waiting for public train while holding two heavy bags of food.
After sliding and trudging down yet to be shoveled sidewalks, I finally got home just in time to rest up for half a minute before walking to the bakery. Shopping when aggravated is not a good thing. Shopping when your injured right knee is screaming at you from the strain of sliding on icy sidewalks is really not a good thing. Some people just get crabby. Me, I decided that those cinnamon rolls at Cafe Selmarie looked really good.
After last week's Magical Meatloaf, I decided it was time for another, with a bit of variation. Tueday I used Stonewall Kitchen's Mesquite Grill Sauce as the main sauce component. I also used some of their Garlic and Onion dip, as well as organic bread crumbs, organic rolled oats, chopped onions and eggs.
Meat loaf is easy to make. essentially you just mix it all up and bake it for about 1 hour at 350 degrees (preheated). I used a pound of ground beef, although ground turkey also works quite well.
Nothing goes with having meat loaf as comfort food as well as organic sweet potato fries and some fresh, organic spinach. I used the same Mesquite Grill Sauce on the meatloaf and fries. The spinach was just seasoned with olive oil and garlic salt.
Oh wait, did I say comfort food? Have some pumpkin angel food cake!!
And later on, to snack on, I bought some butter cookies from Cafe Sel Marie. Does it get much better than this?
I am now ready to handle Santa Claus!!
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Labels: aggravations, comfort, cta, food, grocery, shopping, snow, storm, weather
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Jessica's Jewelry in Ravenswood
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Labels: jessica's jewelry, jewelry, lincoln square, ravenswood, Spanish speaking, store
Firefox, template and Win7 Sony headaches!
If you thought I just changed the template AGAIN, you are correct. I had the cute "Cherries and Stars" in use, and it was darling on all browsers but MY Firefox. I say "my" Firefox because it looked fine on WinXP Firefox on a Dell and on my Toshiba ultra portable. It looked great on Chrome and Opera on my Sony, but Firefox gave me a half naked template.
Developer Sharnee has been a peach and we've been trying to think of how this could have possibly happened, and I have to say that I think it is a weirdness specific to my PC post Win7 Update. I have a test blog that I uploaded back in my Vista days, and that test blog looks perfect with "Cherries and Stars."
As any of you Blogger users know, when you change to a customized template, you lose your widgets. This is a pain in the css so I'm not a fan of updating templates (except that Sharnee's makes templates too cute to resist). So for now, I'm in Miss Retro mode and am looking forward to her 2010 designs or I'll use the same one I have for the Spanish language (oops, I haven't been posting there!) blog. Till then...
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Saturday, December 19, 2009
Pleasure before Homework
Saturday morning Mr Novio and I had breakfast at Cafe Selmarie. I know their prices are a lot higher than what he's used to paying for breakfast when he's on work break, so I really appreciate the nice treat for both of us. XOXO!! That man really makes me tingle (no, not tinkle!)
Mr N had the cheese burrito.
I've been wanting their Chicken Pot Pie since my Christkindl visit on a Sunday (there was none on the menu that day), and I was gastronomically happy to have this for breakfast. It was delish, with all the little fresh veggies in a rich chicken gravy.
Mr. N and I haven't been out for breakfast in quite a while, so it was a real treat to do so. I forgot how much I enjoy his company in the morning.
Saturday's "to-do" list was filled with everything from Spanish homework, working on some new Ebay listings, and cleaning my office, which has turned into an archaeological feat of scariness with Ebay, Christmas gifts, peripherals, papers, shipping boxes and piles of materials to be shredded all contained in a small room.
So how far did I get? Not so far. My homework was all on the subjunctive. I'm not a fan of the subjunctive, and I'd be happy just to stay in the present tense of the subjunctive with all the oddities of irregular verbs. My homework left my head tired with the "imperfect subjunctive" and "conditional statements with an imperfect subjunctive," the latter would be like, "Si lloviera mas, el verano seria mas fresco."
Just when I thought I was confused enough, I was reminded of the Past Perfect Subjunctive, "Si yo hubiera vivido en San Francisco sabria donde esta los calles de Haight y Asbury." Four hours later, my head is very tired and now I have subjunctive trauma, so I called in a needed break to post my food pictures and cash in a birthday gift certificate for some winter clogs. It was either that, or I'd have gone back out for some Sticky Buns from Cafe Selmarie.
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Labels: books in spanish, Cafe Selmarie, chicken pot pie, grammer, homework, mr. novio, sticky buns
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Looks like a duck, walks like a duck, it's a tip, silly!

Sometimes people put 2 + 2 together and come out with 31; the math they won't add up because of faulty assumptions. In my neighborhood, there are several UPS drivers. I have a regular guy, a regular substitute guy, and then a string of other irregular substitutes. The stringers vary from providing exceedingly great service to the 'drop and run, don't bother even ringing the bell' to "I'm not climbing up the stairs to delivery your 50 pound package."
As a result of the worst stringers, I've come to appreciate the great service from the best drivers, whether they are subs or not. My regular driver has a key to the foyer. You can imagine how great it is to come home and see a stack of boxes outside your door (not out by the sidewalk hallway door but my residence door on an upper floor), all safe and secure. I really appreciate the extra service. I also appreciate the service of the regular sub, who will bring my things up stairs even if it's a light, small little box, always with a great disposition and attitude.
So, I always remember these two guys at Christmas. Often when it gets crazy busy during Christmas they pull my regular guy off to do a smaller area, so when I saw him on Lincoln Avenue the other day, I yelled out to him. He was in the truck pulling out the boxes for delivery while his female helper steadied the huge pile on the cart. Mr. UPS stuck his head out when I called out his name, and gave me his usual, "Hi Hon" greeting. I asked him, "Do you still have the key?" since sometimes they change trucks on the drivers and the key and the truck keys stay together. The helper girl's eye's got really big when she heard that, and got even bigger when he said, "yeah."
Then I said, "Stop by later, I've got something for you." Too bad I didn't take a photo of the helper girl's face, which had quite an expression on it. It wasn't until after I had gone to Cafe Selmarie that I realized where her mind had wandered. It's a good thing my UPS guy's name is not Tiger. And sometimes a little "something something" is just a Christmas card and a tip
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Labels: assumptions, Christmas, ducks, UPS, walks like a duck
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Wishing I was car enabled again
I don't have a car and I no longer drive, mostly because of residual issues after a bad accident some time ago. As such, as one of my Junior Achievement kids said, "I take the big, green limousine." That's the CTA, for those of you who didn't know they used to have a more heavily green colored theme. This awesome shot of one very old bus (check out the trolley device on top!) is from Zack's photostream on Flickr.
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Taking the train or bus on a nice day when you are just trying to get from Point A to Point B is no big deal. When you use it to go grocery shopping, well, then there are times where it's not exactly my idea of fun. Take for example, a rainy day. Try holding an umbrella when it is pouring rain out and carrying two shopping bags. Something has to go.
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Today I went to Whole Foods to pick up part of tomorrow's dinner, plus mostly organic produce for tomorrow's food fest. I wanted to take the Lincoln Ave bus and go directly to Julius Meinl for our dessert, but CTA tracker gave me a wait time I couldn't live with so I walked over to the Paulina Brown Line Train stop. My transit card barfed up at me and spit out error codes while a well dressed man with a lady companion proceeded to spew out a torrent of vitriol and negativity at the attendant working behind the booth. She shrugged it off and said he does this to her every day. Send that man a huge lump of coal!
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It turns out that the card was fine, the machine was having issues... and of course this delay cost me catching the next train. After announcing the next one would be an express, I finally made it home. After dropping off my groceries, I walked to Julius Meinl where I picked up two lovely pieces of chocolate cake for our dessert, and walked from Montrose to nearly Lawrence and Lincoln to pick up some naturally raised meats and a big head of cabbage at Gene's and then a couple of sticky buns at Cafe Selmarie. My hands were full.
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So there I was, like a Sherpa, walking with bags in both hands, and I'm only half way home, when hair blows across my face and gets stuck, partly, in my nose. Now there's a look every girl wants.
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Labels: Cafe Selmarie, car less in Chicago, Gene's, grocery, lugging, sherpa, shopping, whole foods
Monday, December 14, 2009
A Different Look, Really!
The first one shown is with Firefox, the second is using Google Chrome and the third IE.


I've been wanting to change the template look for the TCC for awhile. Eventually I'll probably return to the original, but I've been wanting to give this girl a change. It's times like this that I wished that Blogger had a way to retain the widgets when you are using a non-standard template. I hope I picked up all my favorites.
Templates, like websites, can look different on different operating platforms and on different browsers. For example, the background to the left is called, "Cherries and Stars." It shows up on the latest version of IE, Opera, and Google Chrome. It does a disappearing act using Firefox, which is of course my default browser. All of this is using Win 7.
Now if I bring up the TCC using Firefox Win XP, everything is fine. So there's an odd burp with the Win7 combo, go figure. When I try to refresh, the background briefly appears and then goes blank again.
Another annoying thing that occured is the creation of huge spaces between photos on some of my posts, when viewed with IE. Sometimes it looks perfect in IE and looks like a drunken disaster using another browser, or visa versa.
One of the other joys of changing templates is seeing the content shifted and wiggled into new places, often new spaces, and with seemingly no sense of aesthetics.
It makes me glad to not be a website developer.
UPDATE on this:
Sharnee, at Yummy Lolly Templates, sent me a screen shot of my blog page using Firefox and Win7 and hers appears the way it should. So, it sounds like there's also an issue with my Sony Vaio. Looks like I'll be spending more time on the phone with tech support.
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Labels: Firefox, google chrome, IE, inconsistent look, opera
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Magical Meatloaf

Meatloaf is one of those all around comfort foods that brings me back to a different time. Two images always are evoked. One is of my mom making it. The other is being in a diner, but oddly a 50's style diner and I know that never happened.
Friday I went to Gene's for some naturally raised ground beef. Today, I mixed it with mustard, rolled oats, organic toasted bread crumbs, and Stonewall Kitchen's Maple Chipotle Marinade and organic eggs. Besides filling my place with delicious cooking smells, it tastes incredible. Too incredible. Now I remember why I don't make it too often. When you live by yourself, it's easy to keep taking "one more piece."
Next time I make this, I'll make sure I have company. And I think some sweet potato mashed potatoes and cole slaw would be perfect! And yes, I baked it in an Emile Henry dish. Perfection!
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Labels: Gene's Sausage Shop, meat loaf
Friday, December 11, 2009
Justice for Du Doan
Haley, 33, may be a “fool,” but he isn’t a murderer, Haley’s attorneys, Marc Gottreich and Timothy Grace, contended at his murder trail this week. After 7 1/2 hours of deliberation, a Cook County jury apparently agreed with that assessment late Friday, convicting Haley of involuntary manslaughter but acquitting him of first-degree murder charges. “The jury got it right,” Grace said. Haley “didn’t mean to kill the guy.”
Even more disturbing: "Haley will face two to five years in prison when he is sentenced Nov. 19." TWO to FIVE years for taking a life? For deliberately causing harm to another human being which resulted in his death? What also disturbs me is the race issue. It isn't just that an elderly Asian American immigrant was targeted on the basis of his race. This jury did not find his life valuable enough to honor it with a verdict that fit Haley's crime. Would this same jury have found in the same manner if the victim was instead a middle class non immigrant Caucasian woman?
"This was a cowardly act, pushing an elderly man who he could not even look in the eye...and this defendant though that was funny," Circuit Judge John P. Kirby said. "These actions are reprehensible and should not be allowed in civilized society."
"... defense attorneys argued Haley was drunk and seeking a thrill when he pushed Doan, who could not swim, into the harbor as his back was turned in September 2007.
Kirby rejected that excuse.
"A thrill seeker puts himself in danger," Kirby said. "A coward puts others in danger."
Involuntary manslaughter carries a sentence ranging from probation to five years in prison, but Haley's prior felony drug conviction allowed Kirby to extend the prison term to 10 years.
Doan's family members said the loss of the man left an "indescribable void."
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Labels: Asian Americans, Du Doan, hate crime, homicide, John P. Kirkey, Montrose Harbor, murder, Vietnamese Americans
Clear 4G Network Service in Chicago
Sunday at at the Christkindal market in Lincoln Square, Clear.com had a vendor booth. Pedro and I went to get pricing, and I ended up signing up for the service, mostly since I could just pick up the equipment right then and there. I've never done something like that before, and I won't do this again. The contract is sent to your email, so you don't see it or the charges until you get home and can open up your email. It was then that the $50 contract and the other contract for my mobile devices showed all the errors. The $50 contract was over $60 a month and it turned out that I only needed one mobile device. In a quieter setting, it would have been easier for the salesman to set up the contract and check it over, but the booth was busy and with live music and the hustle and bustle of a market, it was not the greatest for concentration. The next day, I called Clear twice. The first time the account service person said he made a variety of corrections, but apparently none of it, including his request for a label so I could return the second mobile device, went through.
I spent a very long time on the second phone call on the same day for the same problem. My account service person this time was excellent and followed through on everything. In fact, he also rebundled the three services I had so I would get a much better price than the one that was advertised in Chicago. I didn't want any lease fees, something that somehow got missed where the modem was concerned, so I purchased that and he credited the fee off of my bill. You can buy the modem for far less than if you leased it for the 2 year contract term. The second account services person said he'd put in a request that their system automatically bundle services for the lowest cost, which would be a great help for any more fest and fare signups.
I've called their billing department, tech support, and phone support departments and have had fairly good service, although at times (I've called so many times that I feel that I am in a position to say this), the help hasn't always been consistently excellent. At the low end, it's been "okay," which compared to many telecom companies is standard or even "high" but this is a new company in a new market with a new product, and as such, customers should expect high standards. At the high end, when you get good customer service from Clear, it's VERY good.
As far as phone rates go, Clear gives you unlimited local and long distance calling, and free calls to Canada, so cost wise this is solid competition for other carriers. Because you buy a device that enables phone service that is connected to your phone, you can use any cordless phone and have mobility without the cost. I know one can do this with Skype, but lugging my laptop around in order to do this is far less appealing than using my cordless phone. I was told that the default is that your phone number is unlisted, which is a good thing as far as I'm concerned. I'm already paying for an unlisted number with AT&T. The Clear phone service includes Caller ID and voice mail for a very attractive price.
The downside of going with their phone service is that you need to buy their Clear Voice Adapter, which will require you to have their Clear Modem instead of the USB Modem. Due to this, the corner of my desk looks like a mass of Ethernet cables and telephone cables, ugh. I just ordered a 3' Ethernet to cut down on the spaghetti look.
Clear is a 4G network, and is supposed to be much faster than our standard Wifi networks which are 3G. The upside of what they have to offer is that for $75 I have unlimited high speed Internet, unlimited local and long distance (US) phone calls and calls to Canada, and unlimited mobile computing via their USB modem. I tested all but the voice aspect, which I could not until today.
My original post was this:
You can have upwards of 5 lights on your Clear modem. I was consistently told that you need 2 to have a good connection. I am right between two towers, neither of them overlaps the other so I needed to aim my modem further west. When I have 3 lights on, the speed is very fast so I can't imagine how zippy it would be if it was at 4 or 5 lights.
I have 7 days for my trial period. Monday and Tuesday seemed okay, although I could not get more than 2 lights on until I put the modem on the floor, which is not a permanent solution. Wednesday evening I had no connection whatsoever. Finally, at 6:00 PM I can get a signal on my Clear modem but it's only one light and I know it won't be a worth logging on with Clear based on past "one light" experience. I was assured that service would be back up by 2 PM today. I was told that the Chicago area is down because they are installing more towers. By 6:30 I'm back to no signal.
This brings home the fact that I could have been with out phone service. Fortunately I didn't bag my AT&T land line and I also have a mobile phone, but I would not have been very happy if I only had the Clear voice service and this had happened. So for now, I'm back to using my AT&T DSL service. Now I'm grateful for a 7 day trial period, since at the moment, things aren't looking so good for Clear and me.
Update:
Today my service is back, and I'm at 4 lights out of 5. The speed is very zippy. Accessing some modules that were previously painfully slow even with DSL seem fast and responsive now. The phone service seems good, although I won't be assess everything until AT&T disconnects the second line, since there is a unique issue with the current one. So right now, I'm liking Clear.
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Labels: 4G, chicago, clear, high speed, internet, telecommunications, WiMax
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Christkindl Market in Lincoln Square and another Birthday celebration
Sunday Pedro and I went to the Christkindl Market in Lincoln Square. I've been so behind in catching up with friends that this should have been one of our get togethers from last year! We went to Cafe Selmarie. Both of us were looking forward to their Chicken Pot Pie but there was none to be had on the menu. Instead Peter had a Brioche sandwich and salad, and I had an order of Blueberry pancakes. My tums decided to not play nice that morning, but fortunately between a cup of hot organic tea and the fact that the blueberry part was a separate concoction, I did fine with just their very, very good and hearty pancakes. Peter decided that this was going to be another birthday celebration (interrupted only by Thanksgiving, since this celebration has been going on and on and on). And well, you know that when someone treats you, the meal just tastes that much better!
At Cafe Selmarie there were two of these handmade boxes with Japanese printed papers. They were quite lovely. The doors actually do close correctly -- I had left one slightly open for the photo.
On our way to the market we saw this ice sculpture.
This exhibit was of dichroic glass pieces. The square black plate has an inset of dichroic bluish glass and was quite striking.
There was much singing, by people who, unlike me, could carry a tune.
After our visit to the market, we went back to Cafe Selmarie where Pedro treated me to cup of their rich and chocolaty hot chocolate. Except for the computer peripherals I came home with, it was a financially pain free day.
http://www.lincolnsquarechristkindl.com/
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Labels: Cafe Selmarie, Christkindl, lincoln square, Market
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Keep your old white gold jewelry

For most of my young adult and adult years, I had never seen my mother wear her dressier wedding ring. She had always opted for a simple gold band. She had mentioned that before I was born and during my younger years, or when they would go somewhere “nice,” that she’d wear a ring my dad bought her. Imagine my surprise when I found out that this was actually an engagement ring set, circa 1940’s, in white gold.
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Engagement rings during the 1940’s had a distinctive setting, and as such they are period pieces. The photo above isn't my ring, but it a 1940's era piece. You can see the unusual setting style for the center diamond. It allows light to come in, under and surround the lower part of the stone. Back then, post war, most people didn't buy huge, ostentatious settings, but by creating a setting like this, light would dance through the stone, optimizing the stone and the setting. Despite my best attempts to clean the pieces myself, the stones remained somewhat lack luster. I brought these pieces to a trusted jeweler in the neighborhood, to be resized and cleaned up. When I picked the pieces up, they didn’t even look like the ones I dropped off: they were dazzlingly beautiful. The owner said he plated the pieces with rhodium.
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Rhodium, a member of the platinum metals group, is an expensive element that exhibits a high reflectivity. It is considered one of the few white metals that will remain bright and reflective under all atmospheric conditions at ordinary temperatures. Because it is very hard and brittle, it is not used as a primary metal for jewelry but as a finish.
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According to finishing.com, at one time, white gold rings were not rhodium plated, and that nowadays, because most jewelers recognize that rings will be plated anyway, the underlying metal often isn’t really white gold by color. Since my mother’s rings were truly white gold without plating, adding the plating not only made the diamonds pop and sparkle with brilliance, but over the years if the plating begins to wear off, it won’t be as noticeable as what often happens to plated non white gold colored “white gold.”
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One might rightly infer then that anyone who has family heirlooms of white gold that is unplated is probably looking at a much higher quality of white gold what is out there now, since plating would not require as white a gold that the older pieces of family heirlooms were done in. I've also heard that modern pieces, when the plating wears off, often reveal the a yellowish gold underneath. When the plating wears off, will I replate? I don't know; only time will, and it would be interesting to see the look of the rings just the way my dad had seen them when he bought them for my mother, which would be unplated, but with cleaned stones.
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You can read more about finishing here: http://www.finishing.com/faqs/whitegold.html
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Tuesday, November 24, 2009
The Chopping Block in Lincoln Square
Looking for a gift for a consummate foodie and home chef, or a place to learn how to whip up a few goodies? Consider going to the Chopping Block in Lincoln Square. Last month I paid a visit to the store and besides picking up a few goodies, I took many photos. Click on the photos to see the full image. The store is attractively laid out, with a panoply of colors and textures that lend interest in this shop that has everything from cookbooks, seasonings for ethnic foods, cooking lessons, wines, serious chef supplies and the whimsical but always useful items.
Looking for some unusual spreads, like a fig spread?
Flavored oils and vinegars abound here.
And for those of you who spend all your time perfecting that crust and aren't up to make your own fruit filling, now you can get a gourmet prepared version.

Do you love Emile Henry dishes? They're gorgeous and pricey, but once you buy one it'll probably last you a lifetime. The Chopping Block has a nice selection in all the bold and brilliant colors that Emile Henry is known for.

Having problems holding onto that hot pan handle? Try the Banana Handle.
Perfect for our fall to winter temps is this display with a pumpkin pie mix.

Nothing heralds in the winter months like a pot of home made soup, and Le Creuset pots are the perfect complement.

Are you ready to take the plunge and try a little Mexican cooking, but you don't have a clue how to find a local botega or make a trip down to Pilsen or Little Village for your spices? There's a nice assortment of Los Chilenos right in the store.
If sea salt is your thing, you've come to the right place. They also have salt and pepper grinders. That's right - grinders for your sea salts.









One of the best ways to keep your knives from dulling out is by using a natural cutting board such as these bamboo ones. Besides feeling better, they look gorgeous.



Last year the Chopping Block offered their premade cookies, which were fabulous. Using the highest quality butters and ingredients, these frozen delights baked up easily in your own oven. This seems to be the year of the pie, and there is usually a monthly featured pie that you can purchase frozen, and after some time baking in your oven, your kitchen will be filled with the lovely aroma of a baked pie, again, without the work. Shhhhh!
Chopping Block
http://www.thechoppingblock.net/
4747 N. Lincoln Avenue
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Labels: Chopping Block, classes, cooking, Gourmet, lincoln square
Monday, November 23, 2009
I'm making Thanksgiving Dinner!

Okay, this took me by surprise almost as much as it probably has anyone else that hasn't done the deed in full for a very long time. The last time I did a full Thanksgiving Dinner, I lived in the Belmont Harbor area right off of the lakefront, in a highrise that sported a nice, electric range. I like electric ranges and stoves - the heat is usually even and there's no mercaptan to fill the air and give me a headache. Most of all, what I liked about this particular place, besides the view, was that we had 3 ovens and no shortage of counter space. Cooking there was, well, fun.
I remember flying back into Chicago from Connecticut on a business trip on Wednesday night. We went to Whole Foods (talk about an insane way to finish up flying on a crazy day, anyway) and picked up a turkey. Thursday I had the stuffed bird in the lower oven, pumpkin pie I made from scratch in the upper oven and candied organic sweet potatoes in the counter top convection oven. Veggies were ready for the stove top. Dinner was amazing, and I appeared as if I had about 7 double espressos.
Since then, I haven't done a full scale dinner in ages. This year, I started shopping early. I found a lovely Calphalon non stick roaster and roasting rack combination on sale at Kitchen Kapers. Yes, on sale with free delivery. The turkey has been ordered, and Emily from Endeavor will be helping me by picking it up, with a few last minute supplies and then I can begin some early chopping for the stuffing. I'm sure Jane, who has been my Whole Foods Thanksgiving go-to gal in the past, is relieved there was no email from me and she and Jim can do their thing without a crazy shopping trip.
Since I no longer have 3 ovens to maneuver with, and hardly half of the counter space in my favorite abode of yore, I've decided to go with Wildfire's pumpkin pie. Okay, it's a departure from organic but it promises to be good. And yes, this is the Wildfire of Wildfire restaurant fame.
The stuffing will use organic sprouted manna bread and Food for Life's Ezkiel sprouted grain bread. This makes a very hearty, robust stuffing that provides much whole grain nutrition. It will either be a very small dinner gathering or a small dinner gathering. Amazingly I still don't know, but I also don't care in that there will be more leftovers with less people (and a better take home quantity). I'm also experimenting with a few sides, so with less people there is, uh, less pressure to perform that perfect meal. And I'm looking forward to some great soup later on!
One of the great things about not having made Thanksgiving dinner in a very long time is that now, I'm looking forward to it. The only thing I miss is not having some of my other loved ones here. Cooking for my loved ones has always made food preparation a special event, as I believe we put the energy of who we are into the food that we handle and that we prepare.
Y, no soy Tita de Agua de Como agua para chocolate.
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Labels: energy, food, thanksgiving
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Gene's Sausage Shop and Delicatessen
The long awaited Gene's Sausage Shop has opened, and it has been worth the wait. Quite frankly, never having been to their long standing store on west Belmont Avenue, and having tried to squeeze in the old Meyer's Delicatessen which was partly in the same location, I wasn't quite sure what to expect. I can tell you this - from the time I walked into the store until the time I left, everything I saw and every employee that I spoke to left me with the feeling that had I had expectations, they would have been exceeded in every way. The selection of food will surprise and delight you if this is your first visit, although based on my experience, I am sure this store staffed with warm and friendly employees will continue to surprise and delight their soon to be regular customers.
One of the first things you'll see when you walk through the door is the predominantly displayed homage to Meyer's Delicatessen, which was home to Lincoln Square in this area for many, many years. For anyone who is not familiar with this institution, the owner's decision to keep this signage is nothing short of smart business, as it pays respect to a long standing institution and says in it's own inimitable way, "We want to be good neighbors and we're here to stay." As anyone knows, signage in of itself is not enough, but by the time I left Gene's, I not only knew I'd be back but I was impressed with the store, both from the consumer side and as a business development professional.
One of the reasons I feature many small businesses on The Tamale Chica Chronicles is because I just happen to love small businesses, which under the SBA definition is a business with 500 or less people. Small businesses have the ability to be for responsive, and more flexible to change, and are the cornerstone of neighborhood economies. I was so pleased with my visit that I decided to shuffle my schedule around to post this story about them, which should also make a few friends very pleased since the "When is Gene's opening?" question has been a common one.







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Gene's Sausage Shop & Delicatessen, Inc.
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Labels: bakery, deli food, dry goods, fresh foods, Gene's Sausage Shop, Grocery store, lincoln square, meat market, specialty foods
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Upgrading to Windows 7 with a Sony Vaio VGC JS030J?
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Labels: clean install, Sony Vaio all in One, upgrade, Windows 7
Friday, November 6, 2009
Xoco
Continuing my birthday celebration, now entering the 3rd week, Senorita Nancia, el madre de Toddrico, came into our fine state of Illinois and the land of Metergate for our get together. We dined at Topolobampo that last time she came in, so today our first stop was Xoco.
When you first walk into Xoco, you basically are in a queing area, and the person in charge will explain the process and provide you with an estimated wait time. Depending on the crowd, it could be a very long wait, or a relatively short one. In our case, we were told it would be 5-10". That time is well spent looking at the menu. If you're not up for squinting at the chalkboard if you've logged in far too many hours on the computer, then just to the right of where we were there is a window sill with menus.
When you get to the end of the line, where the man with the hat is (in the first photo below), you give your order to the cashier and you need to pay for it then. If you order a meal and dessert and a hot beverage, she'll ask you if you'd like your coffee or hot chocolate with or after your meal. We arrived there at around 11:20 AM, which meant we actually started eating around 11:35 or so, and opted to have our coffees and chocolate delivered with dessert. By the time we were ready for dessert, the place was packed and we had a bit of a wait for the beverages, so much that Senorita Nancia commented that we should have asked for them with our meal.
Also, if you're not up for having to keep getting out of your seat, make sure that you find the flatware area and stock up before you find a table, because the personnel who bring your meal do not bring you your flatware. When you first enter Xoco, when occupancy allows, the greeter gives you a number on a piece of paper. After you've paid, found your flatware and navigated yourself to a table, you need to put the number on the metal stand and face it out so that as the meals are being finished in the kitchen, the people delivering them to you can find your table. To be considerate if you share a table, try not to plop your table's sign on top of the napkins because they are there for everyone at the table. We saw this with our second group of "table mates."


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Labels: ambiance, atmospherics, chocoflan, churros, customer experience, El Milagro, pozole, rick bayless, torta, Xoco




























